tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29502643683110886692024-02-18T23:01:41.298-08:00Kasisi Facing Mt. Kenya"The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet" - Frederick Buechner.Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.comBlogger114125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-89696650812859311472023-11-09T22:20:00.000-08:002023-11-09T22:20:00.943-08:00Sharing Journeys of Promise: Conversations with Kenyan Immigrants Living in the United States<p><strong>A <a href="https://streaming.radio.co/s93adcc032/listen" target="_blank">KWR Broadcast</a> [featuring Rev. Priscilla Nyawĩra, Mary Waturi, Alice Waithera, Ngotho wa Njũgũna, and Chef Daniel Wainaina].</strong></p>
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<p>There are myriad reasons prompting Kenyans to immigrate to the United States —from aspirations for higher education to the pursuit of professional opportunities. Transitioning from life in Kenya to establishing a foothold in the U.S involves intricate processes. In recent months, Kasisi Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua through <a href="https://www.kiriakuwavesradio.com/" target="_blank">Kĩriakũ Waves Radio</a> broadcast, held insightful discussions with guests who included, Mary Waturi, Alice Waithera, Rev. Priscilla Nyawĩra, Ngotho wa Njuguna, and Chef Daniel Wainaina.</p>
<p>These are individuals who have made the bold leap across continents in search of betterment, fulfillment, and the American dream. They share their personal immigration stories and the various challenges and opportunities they have met since moving to the US. Through their stories, we get to experience the complex tapestry of an immigrant life and the relentless pursuit of success in a foreign land. The narratives tell of personal resilience, faith, and of community support to overcome inherent challenges. They offer nuggets of advice and encouragement for others who might consider similar journeys.</p>
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<p>Rev. Nyawĩra, is a minister with the Presbyterian Church of East Africa who shares her experiences on Kĩriakũ Waves Radio as a Kenyan immigrant studying at Fuller Theological Seminary in the United States since September 2018. She discusses the highs and lows of her journey, and her decision to pursue a Master of Theology influenced by prayer and conviction. She also talks about cultural shock of encountering racial diversity and individualism in America, contrasting it with Kenyan communal values.</p>
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<p>On his part, Ngotho tells of his immigration journey from Kenya to the United States in the late '90s (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttuCWLYvRZg" target="_blank">watch the full interview here</a>). Having arrived as a young man to attend Orange Coast College for business administration, he reflects on the significant cultural shifts and the sense of community he found in Southern California.</p>
<p>Mary arrived in the US in 2000 with her husband Johnson, who was a student, and their two children. As a student-dependent on an F2 visa, Mary initially could not work or study, which presented early challenges. However, she eventually pursued nursing, a decision that significantly opened up her world and opportunities for career advancement, community service, and personal growth.</p>
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<p>Alice immigrated to the US in 2004 after winning a green card. She recalls praying for a better life for herself and her children, and how a stranger's help led to her winning the green card. The transition to life in the US was challenging, with Alice facing cultural shocks and the demands of managing family life, education, and work. She also journeyed through different roles in nursing, including caregiving and directorial positions, before working for the government in California.</p>
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<p>Chef Daniel Wainaina, known to many simply as Chef Wainaina, equally speaks of his experience as an immigrant in the United States (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zicZxY_FyHk" target="_blank">watch the full interview here</a>). Having arrived in the US over two decades ago, Chef Wainaina reflects on the complexities and gratitude of his journey. He initially planned to enter the computer sector but found his true passion for food reignited after engaging with the Food Network. With roots in Boston where he spent 18 years, Chef Wainaina notes that the culinary industry is now growing within the Kenyan community and hopes more young Kenyans will pursue culinary arts as a career.</p>
<p>We gather from the guests the significant role of faith and community in overcoming challenges such as racial discrimination, financial hardships, and keeping legal immigration status. For example, Priscilla (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RTdcMoW_Is" target="_blank">watch the full interview</a>) reflects on the struggles of adjusting to American norms, including the different beliefs regarding her ministerial role. She emphasizes on the value of grounding oneself in faith and identity. Priscilla also details the stark differences between life in Kenya and the US, noting the importance of self-reliance, the availability of opportunities, and the need to actively seek them out.</p>
<p>Mary and Alice on their parts discussed the challenges unique to Kenyan immigrants, such as cultural shock, financial strains, navigating the US healthcare and education systems, and the lack of a familiar support network. They touch on the difficulty of integrating into American society due to language barriers and different societal norms. Parenting in a new culture is highlighted as a particularly tough aspect, with different expectations and less support than what they had back in Kenya.</p>
<p>While formal support systems specifically for Kenyan immigrants seem lacking, both Mary and Alice underscore the importance of community support. This includes emotional support, financial help, and assistance with settling in and finding resources. They suggest that more established Kenyan immigrants could do more to help newcomers navigate the challenges.</p>
<p>Ngotho recalls challenges such as adapting to American timekeeping, food differences, and initial language barriers. He also shares concerns about the challenges faced by young immigrants, especially those transitioning during critical developmental stages without adequate parental understanding or community support. He advocates for better preparation and support for young immigrants to help them navigate their new environment successfully.</p>
<p>Addressing the misconception that immigrants only work low-tier jobs in the food industry, Chef Wainaina clarifies that the food sector is broad and offers opportunities for growth, especially in fine dining. He encourages aspiring chefs to attend culinary school and stresses the importance of creativity, management skills, and adapting dishes to the local context for success.</p>
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<p>The interviewees agree on the support within the Kenyan and broader African immigrant community, like the financial and emotional assistance, and the vital connections offered by churches. Priscilla notes the lack of an established support system but suggests that community connections often lead to vital resources such as food banks. Despite the many hurdles, Ngotho found a sense of belonging through communal gatherings, especially on Saturdays, where Kenyans would share their experiences and support each other. Post-9/11, Ngotho experienced a change in the social climate, noting increased suspicion and hostility towards immigrants due to heightened fears of terrorism. He had to navigate this shifting landscape while maintaining his sense of identity and purpose.</p> <p>Highlighting the need for community, Chef Wainaina indicated that he has purposefully participated in community events and charity work, especially around holidays - he often cooked for the homeless in the Boston area. He particularly mentions Jane Kimani, a friend who runs Uhai, an organization that advises communities on various issues, including immigration.</p>
<p>For Chef Wainaina, maintaining cultural identity in the U.S. revolves significantly around food. He believes that while traditional Kenyan dishes like ugali and nyama choma are essential, there's room for culinary innovation. He advocates for reinterpreting classic Kenyan dishes by incorporating locally available ingredients in the U.S., which he feels can help elevate Kenyan cuisine to the international stage.</p>
<p>We note from Ngotho the emphasizes on the accelerated learning of culture and language that college life offers immigrant students. Both Ngotho and Priscilla share insights on student life, including the academic workload, the necessity of maintaining grades for scholarship eligibility, and the strict limitations on work for international students. They encourage future immigrants, urging them to embrace the journey, staying true to their reasons for immigrating, and trusting in God's guidance through the challenges.</p>
<p>Ngotho discusses the work ethic in the U.S. while countering the stereotype that everything in America comes easily. In his own words, “each dollar earned is the result of hard work!” He also touches on the ample opportunities for business, education, and employment. He fondly reminiscent on his venture into the business world despite the challenges of starting a business with insufficient preparation. Ngotho equally reflects on the profound differences in societal values, particularly regarding the elderly and the role of family. He notes the lack of support for seniors in the U.S. compared to the reverence and community involvement the elderly enjoy in Kenya. Furthermore, he speaks passionately about his love for reggae music and how it connects him with a broader diaspora community, sharing common experiences despite geographic distances.</p>
<p>On their advice for future Kenyan immigrants, Alice and Mary emphasize the need to be open to learning, to be patient with the process of building a life in the US, and to work together as a team, especially for couples. They urge individuals to embrace their unique journeys without comparing oneself to others. They also call for the establishment of structured community support systems to guide new immigrants. Rev Nyawira advises new immigrants to thoroughly research before coming to the US, highlighting the reality that there are no freebies, and success requires hard work. As for advice to potential immigrants, Ngotho encourages seizing opportunities while being prepared for the hard work required to succeed in the U.S. He suggests taking advantage of the land of opportunity but cautions against unrealistic expectations.</p>
<p>Chef Wainaina advises those considering moving to the U.S. to be prepared for challenges and to start possibly a step down in the culinary industry to learn the ropes. He emphasizes the importance of hard work, skill, and timing for seizing opportunities. Chef Wainaina offers his wisdom to others interested in the food industry, inviting them to reach out to him on social media platforms like YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram for advice and culinary inspiration. He remains passionate about sharing his expertise and fostering appreciation for diverse cuisines.</p>
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<p>In summary, the discussions on Kĩriakũ Waves Radio paint a picture of resilience and adaptability among Kenyan immigrants in the US, while also calling for greater community support and shared knowledge to ease the journey for those who follow. The interviews paint a comprehensive picture of the immigrant experience, from the initial move and adjustment period to the creation of a life and community in a new country. It also touches on the nuances of work, education, cultural retention, and the evolving identity of an immigrant in the United States. They offer unique pathways, uncovering the shared struggles, the victories, the cultural assimilation, and the indomitable spirit of the Kenyan diaspora in the United States.</p>
<p><strong>Through these conversations several themes emerge that may help in future discussions:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Immigration Motivation and Arrival Experiences:</li>
<ul>
<li>Personal reasons for migrating to the US, such as following family or winning a green card.</li>
<li>The initial drive and aspirations that lead to immigrating to the U.S.</li>
<li>The vision of the U.S. as a land of opportunity.</li>
<li>The emotional impact of moving to a new country.</li>
<li>Enriching experiences and demoralizing moments.</li>
</ul>
<li>Cross-Cultural Exchange, Innovation, Cultural Integration:</li>
<ul>
<li>Adjusting to the individualistic and permissive culture in the U.S. in contrast to the communal African lifestyle.</li>
<li>Initial culture shock upon arrival and the realization of the significance of race in America.</li>
<li>Fusion and reinterpretation of traditional Kenyan dishes in the U.S.</li>
<li>Encouraging a global appreciation for diverse cuisines and innovation in food preparation.</li>
<li>The challenges and opportunities of regaining personal identity.</li>
<li>Adjusting to new societal norms and language differences.</li>
<li>Differences in daily life practices, such as eating habits.</li>
<li>The challenge of speaking English constantly in a non-academic environment.</li>
</ul>
<li>Academic Pursuits, and Career:</li>
<ul>
<li>Opportunities for career development and economic advancement for the immigrants.</li>
<li>The opportunities, importance, and impact of further education in the US.</li>
<li>Maintaining immigration status and the importance of adhering to immigration regulations.</li>
<li>Accelerated cultural learning opportunities from international student communities.</li>
<li>The challenges of navigating the American education system and the rigorous academic commitments required.</li>
<li>Transition from initial career plans to pursuing one’s own passion.</li>
<li>Growth and development within the culinary industry in the U.S.</li>
</ul>
<li>Parenting Challenges:</li>
<ul>
<li>Difficulties of raising children in a new culture without an extended support network.</li>
<li>The role of immigrant parents and the experiences of their children in the US education system.</li>
<li>The challenges faced by young immigrants and the generational gap.</li>
<li>The struggle of Kenyan parents raising children in an American cultural environment.</li>
</ul>
<li>Healthcare Navigation:</li>
<ul>
<li>Accessing healthcare and understanding the American healthcare system.</li>
<li>Challenges specific to immigrants in obtaining healthcare services.</li>
</ul>
<li>Financial Struggles:</li>
<ul>
<li>Financial burdens faced as international students, including expensive education and the cost of living.</li>
<li>The difficulty of acquiring scholarships and managing transportation without a car.</li>
</ul>
<li>Racism and Discrimination:</li>
<ul>
<li>Encountering racism and consciousness of one’s own identity in the U.S.</li>
<li>Impact of racial discrimination, personal experiences and interactions in public spaces.</li>
</ul>
<li>Misconceptions and Realities of Immigrant Work:</li>
<ul>
<li>Myths about immigrant jobs in the food industry.</li>
<li>The reality of working conditions and legal issues for immigrants.</li>
</ul>
<li>Legal and Immigration Challenges:</li>
<ul>
<li>Legal issues faced by immigrants, such as documentation and potential family separations.</li>
<li>The strict limitations on work for international students and the reality of on-campus employment.</li>
<li>Debunking myths about the ease of gaining employment and the notion of 'freebies' in America.</li>
</ul>
<li>Social and Professional Integration:</li>
<ul>
<li>Adapting to the expectations of American professionalism and punctuality.</li>
<li>The necessity of being self-reliant and proactive in seeking opportunities.</li>
<li>Challenges faced in integrating into American society and the workplace.</li>
<li>Differences in culture, societal norms, and the process of assimilation.</li>
<li>Stereotypes encountered as an African and how these perceptions shifted after 9/11.</li>
<li>Maintaining Kenyan cultural identity through food and social gatherings.</li>
<li>Dealing with the reality versus expectations as an immigrant.</li>
<li>Navigating and advancing in the food industry as an immigrant.</li>
<li>The significance of culinary education and management skills.</li>
</ul>
<li>Community and Support Systems:</li>
<ul>
<li>Finding emotional and financial support within the Kenyan and Christian communities.</li>
<li>The value of Kenyan churches as community hubs.</li>
<li>The role of churches and fellow Kenyan ministers in providing a support network.</li>
<li>The role of community in providing emotional, social, and sometimes financial support.</li>
<li>Lack of formal structures within the Kenyan immigrant community for support.</li>
<li>Reliance on relatives and the Kenyan community for support.</li>
<li>The unity and shared experiences among Kenyans in Southern California.</li>
<li>The support systems available in Kenya compared to the U.S.</li>
<li>The differing values placed on the elderly and retired individuals in both societies.</li>
<li>Role of family and Kenyan community in the transition process.</li>
</ul>
<li>Advice for Prospective Immigrants and Community Development:</li>
<ul>
<li>Recommendations for Kenyans considering immigration to the U.S.</li>
<li>Encouragement to pursue culinary arts and the necessity of self-advancement.</li>
<li>Suggestions on how to approach life in the US, including embracing one's journey and being prepared for challenges.</li>
<li>The need for establishing support systems for new Kenyan immigrants.</li>
<li>Hopes for a smoother transition for future immigrants through community effort.</li>
<li>Researching, understanding the costs involved, and preparedness for the realities of life in the U.S.</li>
<li>The importance of following legal pathways and maintaining proper immigration status.</li>
<li>Encouragement to seize opportunities while being prepared for the hard work ahead.</li>
</ul>
<li>Business and Entrepreneurship:</li>
<ul>
<li>Ngotho's experience running a Kenyan restaurant.</li>
<li>Comparisons of business practices and meritocracy between Kenya and the U.S.</li>
</ul>
<li>Cultural Preservation Through Cuisine:</li>
<ul>
<li>Maintaining Kenyan cultural identity through food.</li>
<li>Sharing Kenyan cuisine and cultural practices within the immigrant community.</li>
</ul>
<li>Charity and Community Service:</li>
<ul>
<li>Participation in community events and charity work.</li>
<li>The role of food in community gatherings and networking.</li>
</ul>
</ol>
<p>These themes encapsulate immigrants’ personal and professional journey in the United States, providing insights into the challenges, opportunities, and joys of living and working in a new cultural context. Each of the themes represents a different aspect of the Kenyan immigrant experience, showcasing the multifaceted challenges and triumphs of adapting to life in the United States.</p>
<p>Report prepared by Kasisi Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua.</p>
Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-8955056952558281412023-08-14T06:01:00.001-07:002023-08-14T06:01:19.987-07:00ἀποστόλων γενόμενος μαθητής i.e., “the disciple of the Apostles”<p><span style="font-size: large;"><span class="s1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">Another epistle from the distant past: it never made it into the the New Testament. This is an anonymous letter. The writer only identifies himself as </span><span class="s2" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: "Helvetica Neue";">ἀ</span><span class="s1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">ποστ</span><span class="s2" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: "Helvetica Neue";">ό</span><span class="s1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">λων γεν</span><span class="s2" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: "Helvetica Neue";">ό</span><span class="s1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">μενος μαθητής i.e., “the disciple of the Apostles”. </span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">The letter is addressed to “most excellent Diognetus” who may have enquired about Christianity: </span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">a)<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>As a new religious experience, </span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">b)<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Its idea of God,</span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">c)<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>How this idea is different from Greek or Jewish idea of God,</span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">d)<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Why this new religious practice “has only now entered into the world”?</span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">The response by μαθητής is quite polemic and antisemitic in its defense of the new doctrine. The writer makes every effort to distance Christianity from its Jewish roots. </span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">What is obvious in this letter is that these early Christians did not have it easy living their faith. Opposition and persecution were galore. To the writer, martyrdom was received as “the power of God” - the evidence “of His manifestation”.</span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">The μαθητής speaks of his faith as a new metaphysical experience that is different in form and practice.</span></span></p><p class="p1" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"><span style="font-size: large;">One cannot fail to notice that the writer does not explicitly mention by name, the “only-begotten Son” who God sent as the Savior of the world. Yet in words and description he leaves no doubt that his reference is to Yeshua. Why so, I ask? A possible reason why the epistle never made it to the NT! Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua</span></span></p>Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-68664385098417395562023-08-12T20:56:00.005-07:002023-08-12T20:58:06.768-07:00Letter by the Church in Rome to the Church at Corinth<p><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-size: medium;">The journey continues. I have just completed reading a letter by the Church in Rome to the Church at Corinth. Possibly, this letter was written towards the end of the first century AD. Translators attribute this letter to Clement of Rome (who is also celebrated by some Christians as having received his authority as the Bishop of Rome from Apostle Peter). The Christian group in Corinth seemed to have reached out to fellow believers in Rome seeking guidance on specific calamitous issues. Paul’s and Peter’s martyrdom was still fresh in the mind of the church in Rome. The church spoke of the two as “the greatest and most righteous pillars”. Curiously, the Christians in Rome quoted extensively from the Septuagint (LXX) and others unknown texts! They spoke fondly of Adam, Abraham, Noah, Psalmist, Daniel, and Isaiah. They even quoted from an Egyptian myth in support of the teaching on resurrection. Yet these early Christians seem to have been unaware of any book of the New Testament. On Yeshua, they spoke with authority. They were the AUTHORITY! Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua</span></p>Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-49703278964654502023-08-09T21:46:00.000-07:002023-08-09T21:46:05.952-07:00Polycarp’s epistle to Christians in Philippi<p><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue";"><span style="font-size: medium;">Did you know that for a period of about 300 years, the early Christians had in their possession many books and epistles that informed their faith? This was long before the Church settled on Athanasius’ (Bishop of Alexandria) list of 27 books of the New Testament. I have just finished re-reading Polycarp’s epistle to Christians in Philippi. Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua</span></span></p>Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-45948453246643345842023-03-21T10:54:00.010-07:002023-03-21T10:55:36.606-07:00Mutually Encouraged: A Report from the 2023 Kenya Mission Conference<p> </p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">March 21, 2023</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Mutually Encouraged: 2023 Kenya Mission Conference, Nairobi (February 1 – 4)<br />by Rev. Dr. Johnson K. Kinyua</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOIhvdc3KaAMjzXY-RrwuBIabd35649sv8fnCEjLA8V8BdTyr9S0nDA0yNStwXrIFNfgvpEOH74PHqC6KSmjtt9SwXwgct9XeVYmRlus6Wlp292AuwJwmUtd6Ynit3XZAEwq8KU7_MfOI0-wGmgHW1Sj2PrVywOQ12Xd79ioRLQ2TwunzMcy9f5aWcdg/s2500/IMG_1522.JPG" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1051" data-original-width="2500" height="135" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOIhvdc3KaAMjzXY-RrwuBIabd35649sv8fnCEjLA8V8BdTyr9S0nDA0yNStwXrIFNfgvpEOH74PHqC6KSmjtt9SwXwgct9XeVYmRlus6Wlp292AuwJwmUtd6Ynit3XZAEwq8KU7_MfOI0-wGmgHW1Sj2PrVywOQ12Xd79ioRLQ2TwunzMcy9f5aWcdg/s320/IMG_1522.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><p class="p3" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;">Recently, I had the privilege to join a few others at the PCEA Milele Nairobi to reflect and share on mission partnership in Kenya.</p><p class="p3" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">The theme of the conference came from Romans 1:8–13. The passage describes Paul’s desire to visit Rome and his longing to give the local Christians a spiritual gift while being mutually inspired by their faith. Notwithstanding the difficulties he encountered on the way to Rome, Paul recognized his humanity and the value of his connections with other believers. He understood that sharing of the faith might be beneficial in both directions. A key component of partnership and mission work is the notion of reciprocal support and encouragement.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Many churches, groups, and individuals continue partnering with the locals in Kenya for various mission activities. These alliances seek to strengthen vulnerable communities while fostering cooperation and respect among partners. One such group that works with the underprivileged is <a href="http://www.kasisifacingmountkenya.com/"><span class="s1" style="color: #dca10d;">Kasisi Global Institute of Leadership and Mission</span></a>. We continue working with Milele college, Pamoja Mission Africa, Naivasha prison, P.C.E.A Marsabit, and L.I.S.H. vocational training to support local communities and promote education among the youth. We are working towards sustainability and enduring structures to ensure a long-lasting impact.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">In the conference, we were reminded that there are some ideals that must be kept in order to work with vulnerable communities in a way that is empowering and that acknowledges the gifts that various communities bring to the table. Such ideals are respect for people, listening, understanding them and their context, affirming them as equal and engaging from a point of equality, using education as an empowerment, close monitoring and evaluation of projects.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">It is essential to be God’s witnesses through mutuality and respect. We learned from various partners how they have succeeded by being intentional in listening, understanding culture, understanding needs, appreciating context, witnessing progress, and avoiding situations where people misunderstand other peoples’ cultures. We heard how others have allowed the Word of God to lead them instead of mere impositions. In practicing mutual respect and trust, mutually sharing and journeying together, they have found opportunities to be a blessing to each other.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Towards the end of the conference, I sat down for an interview with one of the mission partners, Sharon Secor. I invite you to take time to <a href="https://www.youtube.com/live/JQ8RltxYMzw?feature=share"><span class="s1" style="color: #dca10d;">watch the full interview</span></a> after reading this reflection. Secor shared insights in mission partnerships as a fulfillment to the Great Commission and a commitment to koinonia in fellowship. Through her story, we are immersed into the many Pentecost moments of learning, of trust, of the outsider’s perspective, of commitment to love, while avoiding toxic charity.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Secor’s 25 years of mission experience and partnerships, offer insight into some of the important aspects of partnership. They include developing a comprehensive memorandum of understanding, establishing a clear entry and exit route, continued evaluation, submission of progress reports, developing well-established structures of governance, auditing of resources, making efforts to visit sites, synergy in collaboration, updates on progress and challenges during the process, and inclusivity.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">In conclusion, mission work in Kenya has come a long way. Many have embraced partnership as a vital tool in fulfilling the Great Commission and spreading the gospel of Jesus Christ. Such partnership must uphold respect, equality, dignity of the human person, solidarity, and mutual support while working towards empowering vulnerable communities and recognizing their gifts. With a commitment to love and a dedication to excellence, mission work and partnerships continue to make significant impact in the lives of people in Kenya and around the world.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 13px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><i>Johnson Kinyua is the pastor of Church of Amazing Grace International, Fullerton. He is also the founder & CEO of <a href="http://www.kasisifacingmountkenya.com/"><span class="s1" style="color: #dca10d;">Kasisi Global Institute</span></a> and the online <a href="http://www.kiriakuwavesradio.com/"><span class="s1" style="color: #dca10d;">Kiriaku Waves Radio (KWR)</span></a>.</i></p>Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-32109720939407055232023-03-11T12:20:00.004-08:002023-03-11T12:20:43.831-08:00The Bible, my book it remains!<p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">The Bible, my book it remains!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Whether it is written by the hand of God or the hands of men;</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Whether it’s stories are historical or theological;</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Whether the characters there in are real or fictional;</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Whether it’s language is literal or metaphorical!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">The Bible, my book it remains!</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Though it’s many translations confound;</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Though it’s linkages with colonial history dismay;</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">The Bible, my book it remains!</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">It has molded me!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">It has spoken to the deep within me!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">It has hedged me!</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Its Wisdom challenges every bit of my intellect!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">It’s Truth has smothered my pride!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Its Stories continue to surprise!</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">The Bible, my book it remains!</span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">A good companion it remains!</span></p><p class="p2" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p class="p1" style="font-stretch: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Kasisi Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyua - a student of the Bible and all other Sacred Texts of the World!</span></p>Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-12501232174321072122018-06-21T00:13:00.000-07:002018-06-21T00:13:09.098-07:00Towards an authentic African Theology:<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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As a biblical scholar and a theologian, I take the term “theology” to simply mean, “Faith Seeking Understanding”. In this regard, I hold the opinion that any theological thought must engage Scripture, History, Human Experience, Reason (and to some extent, Tradition). In the coming days, I will make several proposals towards an authentic African Theology. Kĩriakũ</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-26835861928921425042015-01-27T21:02:00.004-08:002015-01-27T21:02:58.959-08:00Spiritual Leadership<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "Arial",sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The Church universal is
gifted with many talented leaders who have not only impacted our church and our
neighborhood but also the world. We are an army of experts that God can use
mightily to move many towards the agenda of God. God has promised us, as a
community of faith, his presence and his equipping if we submit ourselves to
God-self. When we yield our will to God, God can shape our lives according to
his purposes. As we journey together as Christ's beloved, I am challenged to ask: How
can we move the church on to God’s Agenda? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial",sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">God
intends us to be people of great humility, integrity, and faith. Most important
is the call to go back to the basics of life: a heart that is pure, love that
endures, faith that is fervent and hope eternal. To be successful in our vision and mission,
we need women and men who have the clarity of mind, deep sense of commitment,
and individuals that are open to learning. We need women and men who fully
understand that the overall mission of the Christian Church is to enable every
individual believer to achieve fully and more readily their ultimate happiness.
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<span style="font-family: "Arial",sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;">The apostle Paul
reminds us in Romans 12:8 that Christian leadership develops through the active
work of the Holy Spirit. Every task that we perform, whether leading teenagers,
erecting buildings, administration, or fundraising, requires the Spirit’s presence.
Like Zerubbabel of old, we are reminded that true spiritual leadership is not
by strength or by might, but by God’s Spirit (Zechariah 4:6.) True leadership
does not seek or pursue narrow individual or group interests. God is raising a
new army of believers who are ready and willing to move God’s people on to
the Agenda of God. This I believe!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">- </span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">Kĩriakũ.</span><br />
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-2978200335206085242014-05-11T19:06:00.000-07:002014-05-11T19:06:00.073-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 40<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love is covenant.</div>
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I am elated as I enter my fortieth day of the Love Dare. It marks my commitment to myself and my wife. But even as I come to the end of the dare, I am nakedly aware that this is only part of a journey.</div>
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The experience and challenge of loving my wife is something that never comes to an end.</div>
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"Where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God" (Ruth 1:16).</div>
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I am rededicating myself to my wife.</div>
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The rededication has no expiration date - "till death do us part".</div>
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I am taking up my role as a covenant keeper.</div>
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No matter what may arise hereafter to challenge my faithfulness to this covenant, I give myself to my wife and commit to this marriage for life.</div>
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This covenant cuts off all avenues of retreat or withdrawal.</div>
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I fasten my love afresh on the one the Lord has given me to cherish, prize, and honor.</div>
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I dare to take hold of it and never let go! </div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-89835993743995260262014-05-10T22:01:00.002-07:002014-05-10T22:01:47.944-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 39<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love endures.</div>
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"Love never fails" (1 Cor. 13:8).</div>
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Though threatened, love keeps pursuing. Though mistreated and rejected, love refuses to give up.</div>
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If love can be told to quit loving, then it's not really love. Love that is from God is unending, unstoppable.</div>
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Love is based on the will of God, the calling of God, the Word of God. When all else fails, the truth of God will still be standing.</div>
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Therefore, my love should bear the same unchanging characteristics. </div>
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Loves never fails.</div>
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Never!</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-26482120200833467402014-05-09T22:34:00.002-07:002014-05-09T22:37:22.644-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 38<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love fulfills dreams.</div>
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"Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4).</div>
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Dreams and desires come in all shapes and sizes. But love takes careful notice of each one.</div>
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Many are the moments when I have found myself asking what is it that my wife would really, really love.</div>
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Unfortunately, I have let "no" become too quick a response to such moments.</div>
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Yet in today's dare I am reminded that love sometimes needs to be extravagant.</div>
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I am also reminded of the many times God's love has met needs in my heart that once seemed out of the question. Yes, there have been many occasions in my life when I have thought life was over as certain setback took all the wind out of my sails. In such moments I break down and cry out to God. Though it has not always been easy getting back up and trod on, I have somehow found myself surviving the storms. God has in many of such moments met me with His promised peace "which surpasses all comprehension" (Philippians 4:7) and kept me on my feet.</div>
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I am thus reminded that God is the One my love is designed to imitate! I dare to be extravagant in loving my wife.</div>
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I dare bring forth to mind the things that are unique to our relationship, the pleasures and enjoyments that bring a smile to our faces.</div>
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I dare to daydream about the many opportunities to pour out my love so regularly that my wife's desires become mine as well.</div>
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I dare to overwhelm her with love!</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-51837216412537813782014-05-08T19:35:00.000-07:002014-05-08T19:35:59.567-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 37<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The unity that grows between a man and woman who regularly pray together forms an intense and powerful connection. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">When we were joined together as husband and wife, God gave me a perfect wedding gift - a permanent prayer partner for life. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">In prayer, two people remember that God has made them one. Praying for my wife leads my heart to care more deeply about her. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Prayer is a privilege to be enjoyed on a consistent, daily basis. God's blessing falls on us when we agree in prayer.</span></div>
Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-66664152335377003972014-05-07T20:49:00.003-07:002014-05-07T20:49:19.383-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 36<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love is God's Word.</div>
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God has the right plan for everything. God has revealed these plans in God's Word.</div>
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"Your Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light to my path" (Psalm 119:105).</div>
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Because the Holy Spirit now lives in my heart, by way of salvation, He illuminates my path with the truth of my Maker. This I know because "these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God" (1 Cor. 2:10).</div>
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As the Scripture says about the rules of God: "More to be desired are they than gold, even fine gold; sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb" (Psalm 19:10).</div>
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Today's dare remind that I have to continue establishing my marriage and home on the rock of God's unchanging Word which insures against destruction. Amen.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-74920123540734727332014-05-06T20:45:00.003-07:002014-05-06T20:45:11.881-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 35<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love is accountable.</div>
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"The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man is he who listens to counsel" (Proverbs 12:15).</div>
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Everyone needs wise counsel throughout life.</div>
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A couple that faces problems alone is more likely to fall apart during tough times.</div>
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Couples who interlock their lives in a network of other strong marriages radically increase their chances of surviving the fiercest of storms.</div>
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Wise people constantly seek counsel and gladly receive it.</div>
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The unfortunate thing with most of us is that we waste years of life learning painful lessons when we could discover those same truths during a few hours of wise counsel.</div>
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We ought to have the courage to cross bridges others have built.</div>
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I cannot deny, I need today's dare more than anyone else. I do not know if it is pride or fear of "exposing" self that hinders me to seek other people's counsel or something else. Courage Brother do not stumble. Trust in God and do the Right!</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-49483752347681856832014-05-05T21:34:00.002-07:002014-05-06T19:38:18.726-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 34<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Love celebrates godliness.<br />
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"Love does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth" (1 Cor . 13:6).<br />
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"The report of your obedience has reached to all; therefore I am rejoicing over you, but I want you to be wise in what is good and innocent in what is evil" (Romans 16:19).<br />
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The pursuit of godliness, purity, and faithfulness is the only way for me to find joy and ultimate fulfillment.<br />
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God's Word is the ultimate expression of what real life is. Scripture is God's ideals and instructions that are the only pathways to real blessing and when we see people follow them in obedience to the Lord, it should cause us to rejoice.<br />
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Love rejoices most in the things that please God. We should be doubly thrilled and excitedly cheering our spouses on for what they're allowing God to accomplish in their lives.<br />
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-52111331820572304942014-05-04T19:57:00.002-07:002014-05-04T19:57:46.258-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 33<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love completes each other.</div>
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"Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor. For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up. If two lie down together they keep warm, but how can one be warm alone?" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-11.)</div>
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Marriage origin intention was for woman and man to complete each other:</div>
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Differing Natures and temperaments were meant to provide balance;</div>
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Teamwork raise the two to health and maturity;</div>
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Where one is weak, the other is strong ;</div>
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When one needs building up, the other is equipped to enhance and encourage; </div>
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We multiply one another's joys and divide one another's sorrows.</div>
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Our differences can frequently be the source of misunderstanding and conflict, yet they can be ongoing blessings if I respect them.</div>
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Working together on purpose honors God's design for my relationship and guards the oneness God intends.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-53688329332717393932014-05-03T21:46:00.001-07:002014-05-03T21:46:12.682-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 32<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love meets sexual needs.</div>
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In marriage, romance is meant to thrive and flourish.</div>
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The Song of Songs is a good example and a beautiful love story where romance is celebrated. It expresses how honesty and understanding in sexual matters lead to a life of confident love together.</div>
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In the act of romance, we join our hearts to each other in an expression of love that no other form of communication can match.</div>
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All the Dares so far - patience, kindness, selflessness, thoughtfulness, protection, honor, forgiveness - will play a role in renewing sexual intimacy.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-51198414707871847222014-05-03T09:51:00.000-07:002014-05-03T09:51:00.745-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 31<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love and marriage.</div>
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Leave. And cleave. And dare to walk as one.</div>
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Leaving = means to break from a natural tie. This, though an issue in many marriages, at least it has not affected my marriage in any significant way. </div>
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We have successfully cut the apron strings.</div>
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The purpose of "leaving", is not to abandon all contact with the familial ties but rather to preserve the unique oneness that marriage is designed to capture.</div>
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Cleaving = carries the idea of catching someone by pursuit, clinging to her as my new rock of refuge and safety.</div>
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Of course tasked with the responsibility of loving my wife "just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25).</div>
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As a result we are free to become everything God meant when God declared us "one flesh":</div>
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In priorities </div>
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In affections.</div>
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Leave. And cleave. And dare to walk as one.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-31549638063616863982014-05-01T19:27:00.002-07:002014-05-01T19:27:30.853-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love brings unity.</div>
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Just like love, unity is of God.</div>
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Some of the unshakable hallmarks of our God are: Unity, Togetherness, Oneness.</div>
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In this spirit of oneness, husband and wife (though two distinct individuals) are spiritually united into the mystery of "one flesh".</div>
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The mystery is so compelling that God uses the imagery of marriage to explain God's love for the church.</div>
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In today's dare, I am reminded that the preservation of oneness with my wife is worth every sacrifice and expression of love.</div>
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I ask of God's strength as I make it my mission to do everything possible to promote togetherness of heart with my wife.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-72154948044542820712014-04-30T19:41:00.002-07:002014-04-30T19:41:42.355-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 29<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love's motivation.</div>
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"Render service with a good attitude, as to the Lord and not to men" (Ephesians 6:7).</div>
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Love motivated by mere duty cannot hold out for very long.</div>
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Love that is only motivated by favorable conditions can never be assured of sufficient oxygen to keep it breathing.</div>
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Definitely, moods and emotions can create all kinds of moving motivational targets. </div>
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But love comes from God.</div>
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Therefore, when God is my reason for loving, my ability to love is guaranteed.</div>
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The love that is demanded from me in marriage should not be dependent on my wife's sweetness or sustainability. </div>
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The love between my wife and I should have one chief objective, honoring the Lord with devotion and sincerity.</div>
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The blessing that that kind if love brings to my beloved in the process is simply a wonderful, additional benefit.</div>
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Only love that is lifted up as an offering to God is able to to sustain itself when all other reasons have lost their ability to energize me.</div>
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Love that has God as its primary focus is unlimited in the heights it can attain!</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-88365577316112253992014-04-29T20:55:00.000-07:002014-04-29T20:55:33.048-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 28<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love makes sacrifices.</div>
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I must admit today's dare is the hardest so far. </div>
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Yet Scripture reminds that lives that have been raised from death by Jesus' sacrifice should be ready and willing to make daily sacrifices to meet the needs of others.</div>
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I am nakedly aware that I am usually the first to feel it when I am the one being mistreated or inconvenienced.</div>
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When life is difficult for me, I notice.</div>
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Unfortunately, the only way I notice that life is hard for my wife is when she start complaining about it.</div>
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Her pain and pressure most of the time do not register with me the way it does when it is my pain and pressure.</div>
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Yet when I complain, I expect her to understand and feel sorry for me.</div>
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Today's dare challenges that love does not have to be jarred awake by my wife's obvious signs of distress.</div>
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Love desires that I be sensitive to my wife. </div>
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Love makes sacrifice.</div>
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Love shows compassion.</div>
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Love inspires to say "no" to what I want, in order to say "yes" to what my wife needs ( Matthew 25:35-36).</div>
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I have to let love pick me up out of my self-pity and turn my attention to my wife's needs.</div>
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Love is willing to make sacrifices to see that the needs of my wife are given my very best effort and focus.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-63324038484294034782014-04-29T20:07:00.001-07:002014-04-29T20:07:15.278-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 27<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love encourages.</div>
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"Encourage the exhausted, and strengthen the feeble " ( Isaiah 35:3).</div>
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"Encourage one another and build up one another ... Encourage the faint hearted, help the weak, be patient with everyone (1 Thessalonians 5:11, 14).</div>
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I continue being reminded that marriage is a unique friendship designed by God where two people live together in flawed imperfection but deal with it by encouraging each other, not discouraging them.</div>
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Perhaps I have spent most of my past years as a "speck" inspector making my loved ones spend most days sensing more of my disapproval than my acceptance.</div>
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I choose to live by encouragement rather than by expectations. </div>
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I choose to focus on personal responsibility and improving myself rather than on demanding more from my wife. </div>
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Marriage is a relationship to be enjoyed and savored along the way.</div>
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I am making a commitment tonight to daily let go of unrealistic expectations and become my wife's greatest encourager. </div>
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Oh! That you may grant me this Grace, God, I beg of you in Jesus precious name. Amen.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-59647179743444477022014-04-27T19:10:00.003-07:002014-04-27T19:10:21.225-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 26<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love is responsible.</div>
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Love is responsible and is willing to admit and correct its faults and errors up front.</div>
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Love does not pass the blame so easily or justify selfish motives.</div>
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Personal responsibility is something we wish others to have but struggle to maintain it ourselves.</div>
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We are so quick to justify our motives.</div>
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So quick to deflect criticism.</div>
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So quick to find fault with our spouse who is of course the easiest one to blame.</div>
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Love is not nearly as concerned with its own performance as with others' needs.</div>
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Love does not make excuses.</div>
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I must re-learn to first admit my own wrongs instead of passing blame.</div>
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Love also calls me to take responsibility for my wife.</div>
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To love her.</div>
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To honor her.</div>
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To cherish her.</div>
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Pride is very resistant to responsibility, but humility and honesty before God and my wife is crucial for a healthy relationship (1 John 1:8-9).</div>
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This is my honest pray.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-36495501271239949032014-04-26T18:57:00.002-07:002014-04-26T18:57:42.431-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 25<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love forgives.</div>
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Great marriages are not created by people who never hurt each other, only by people who choose to keep "no record of wrongs" (1 Corinthians 13:5).</div>
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Inability to forgive is the most complex problem of all ( Matthew 18).</div>
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Forgiveness cannot just be considered and contemplated but must be deliberately put in practice.</div>
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Many a times we are unable to forgive because of perceived dangers and risks involved in forgiving others. </div>
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Nevertheless, forgiveness does not absolve anyone of blame. It does not clear the offenders record with God.</div>
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Forgiveness saves the forgiver the trouble of trying to win.</div>
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Forgiveness is about freedom.</div>
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It is about letting go.</div>
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By forgiving I release my anger and the responsibility for judging the offender to the Lord.</div>
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Kĩriakũ wa Kĩnyuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06519379874095827191noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950264368311088669.post-46605064096638331522014-04-25T19:46:00.000-07:002014-04-25T19:46:49.185-07:00LOVE DARe: Day 24<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Love vs. Lust</div>
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Lust is in opposition to love.</div>
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Lust simply means to set our heart and passions on something forbidden. </div>
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It is likened to the bottomless pit of unmet longings.</div>
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This includes but not limited to seeking sexual fulfillment in another person; lust after possessions or power or prideful ambition.</div>
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Lust always breeds lust.</div>
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Lust is the first step out of fellowship with the Lord and with others.</div>
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It represents the beginnings of a lie.</div>
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Rather than fulfillment, lust leads to emptiness.</div>
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It breeds anger, numbs hearts, and destroys marriages.</div>
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Only God's love can fill me. Lust is a misguided thirst for satisfaction that only God can fulfill.</div>
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I dare choose love.</div>
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I run to God for satisfaction (2 Peter 1:3-4).</div>
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I choose to be grateful for everything God has already given me rather than choosing discontentment.</div>
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While I am at it, I set my eyes and heart on my wife (Proverbs 5:18-21).</div>
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Lust is the best this world has to offer, but love offers me the best life in the world. Amen.</div>
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